Arguing With What Is

Arguing with what is. Possibly the most fruitless endeavor in the world. Yet many of us consistently argue with how we are, how others are and how the world is. Arguing with what is is like living in an unending war. Clinging to a story inconsistent with what is requires constant vigilance. Our lives begin […]

Releasing Outcomes

I think of myself as a goal-oriented, disciplined person. Most of the time I know what I want (at least I think I do). Some of the time I’m intentional and present with my choices. I like routine and can be both dogged and stubborn. Outcomes have always been important to me. I’ve set my […]

Identify Yourself

Identity is everywhere. Identity theft, identity politics, job applications and social media profiles confront us at every turn. We are constantly being commanded to prove our identity, not only formally, as in logging on to our bank accounts, but socially, in order to justify our existence, our beliefs and our values. Technology has created new […]