Arguing With What Is

Arguing with what is. Possibly the most fruitless endeavor in the world. Yet many of us consistently argue with how we are, how others are and how the world is. Arguing with what is is like living in an unending war. Clinging to a story inconsistent with what is requires constant vigilance. Our lives begin […]

Alchemy

Alchemy: A seemingly magical process of transformation, creation, or combination (online Oxford Dictionaries). Emotional intelligence training opened my eyes to the power of needs in our human experience. Coming to terms with my own needs catapulted me into a new life. During the months in which I learned to navigate through my feelings, needs (click […]

Defining Intelligence

I went to the dentist last week. I spent the usual hour with the hygienist and then the dentist breezed in to give me four or five minutes of exam, comment, teaching and friendly conversation. Thankfully, I don’t require more than this, as my teeth are in excellent shape. In the course of those few […]